I wanted to share the moving story of a girl who regularly performed Tahajjud. When she recounted it, tears filled her eyes. She comes from a very respectable family, and out of respect for her privacy, I will not mention her name.

Early Years & Marriage

Before marriage, she was always cheerful and full of life—yet she often hid her sorrows behind a smile. She prayed Tahajjud sincerely, asking that her husband live in Makkah or Madinah.

Years later, Allah accepted her dua, and she received two marriage proposals—both from those cities. She even set her Facebook location to “Makkah,” never losing hope. During her nikah, another proposal came in but was withdrawn when she was already engaged. Her destiny was set.

Life in Saudi Arabia

After moving near Makkah, her husband began verbally abusing and physically beating her. He once threatened to kill her. She often wept—tears streaming as she walked to the Kaaba. She held the Holy Cloth and prayed for relief and protection.

Their relationship lacked marital intimacy, and she feared something was disrupting their bond—possibly spiritual. She even heard noises at night, suspecting jinn. However, her faith kept her strong: no harm could come unless Allah allowed.

Challenges & Faith

Despite her husband showing love early on, his temperament changed post-marriage. She began making heartfelt duas for his guidance, even when family members advised her to leave. Her mamu (maternal uncle) and cousin told her: “You’re beautiful—don’t waste your life.”

Confused and weary, she prayed:

“O Allah, guide me. If my husband is good for me, keep us together; if not, remove him from my heart.”

Time passed, and she practiced sabr (patience). She kept busy—teaching deen and helping women. Though limited in movement, she created women's groups to support others facing marital stress. Her own sabr and experiences brought peace to many lives.

A Path of Strength

Her husband’s behavior gradually improved through her prayers and perseverance. She connected with female scholars and mentors, leading Islamic classes. She performed Hajj and visited both Makkah and Madinah—a true blessing.

Her life remains challenging—she lacks children, and her marriage is more of a friendship—but her heart is anchored in dua. She continues reciting Durood, finding solace and strength.

Lessons for All of Us

1. Never give up.
   
   

2. Trust in Allah’s plan.
   
   

3. Constantly recite Durood.
   
   

The Prophet ﷺ said that those who frequently send Durood will have their sorrows and sins removed. This sister’s consistent dhikr has brought hope and peace to her life. She believes in Allah’s mercy and has placed her trust fully in Him.

Wisdom to Live By

Life is fragile—a balance of happiness and sadness. Allah knows best. Don’t chase after what may harm you; align your actions with what is halal. We are Allah’s servants, not masters of fate.

A good marriage requires respect, sincerity, and rights—not just empty words. Sabr and surrender to Allah’s will will never be wasted. Over time, a woman’s patience and faith may bring ease to her home and heart.